About
Meet Jade (she/they) The One Woman Force Behind Silicone Slinger Harnesses
I made a career out of strapping, literally. What started as a personal mission to improve my own harness experience turned into a business, fueled by a love for functional kink gear and a hunger to make strapping better for everyone.
I’m queer, disabled (POTS and Ehlers-Danlos), and experienced in both giving and designing. My journey began with sewing harnesses for myself because I wanted more color options, and because I needed something easier to take on and off without endless adjusting. I wanted gear that worked with my body, not against it.
Turns out, I wasn’t the only one. After gaining a loyal following online posting clips of me strapping my partner mercilessly, others started asking where they could get harnesses like mine. Now I design and hand make every piece with that same obsessive attention to comfort, ease, and performance for all bodies and all kinds of play.
This brand is built from experience and a desire to revamp both the slinging and receiving experience with gear that fits, feels good, and looks hot doing it.
I’m a proud control freak and perfectionist, which means everything on this site is 100% me. From sketching designs on my tablet, to photographing each product, to obsessing over every single word you might read, this is a one person show. I’ve poured so much of myself into this work, and my hope is that you can feel that in every detail.
To see aforementioned clips of me putting my straps to use, my username is jadesjungles on all sites and I have all my spicy links listed on jadesjungles.com.
The Harness I Couldn’t Find, So I Made My Own
When I first started slinging, I tried so many harnesses. Out of everything I tested, my favorite ended up being a $10 nylon harness from Amazon. Not because it was fancy, but because it worked. It held the O-ring low (which, in my opinion, is where it belongs for better control and a more anatomically accurate ride) and kept the thigh straps snug, unlike other designs that left too much slack between me and the silicone.
But as I began strapping more regularly and more relentlessly, I realized even my cheap favorite wasn’t cutting it.
First issue? Accessibility. With POTS and Ehlers-Danlos, I need breaks often. And having to constantly loosen and retighten straps was a chore. My second issue was fashion. As an artistic femme, I wanted harnesses that could match my mood and my outfit, color options were basically nonexistent. So I started sewing my own. At first, just to get one in every shade of the rainbow. But once I saw how much I could improve on the function too, I was hooked.
My design features four side release buckles, so you can get in and out quickly without readjusting every time. I added sliders to manage excess strap length, so no more dangling nylon slapping around mid thrust. For toy variety, I use four sturdy spring snaps so you can swap out O rings quickly. And because comfort matters, I sourced a sturdy but flexible polypropylene webbing that’s soft against the skin without losing strength or structure.
What started as a personal mission to make strapping easier, cuter, and more accessible has grown into something I’m proud to share with others. I designed this harness because I needed it. Now, it’s yours too.